Pair Grade : Page 3

Preface

Netizens,
Have a nice day to all who glide through the air of limitless net skies.
Hello brethren of musketeers and musketeer-rets.
We meet again for an engaging conference.

Next is the Pair Grade. It is a prototype tool to use in a practical way to score or grade any potential relationship.
What do you most like in a person or people? How do you choose a friend, a sports buddy, a boyfriend or girlfriend, a fiance'?
Or, a job of business, a school, a sports team, a personnel, an organization? In the Pair Grade whoever is suited as your ideal partner or partners will score the highest. Hence, it is your assistant when you face 2 choices or more. It gives you a second opinion that supports, verifies, or cautions.

Please skim these equations. You may routinely use only the first 2 equations : Ideal PO, Hidden PO.

Abbreviations

P = pluses
M = minuses
S = strength
W = weakness
Y = you
H = him / her
C = compatibility

Ideal PO : +1
Hidden PO : -1
Exceptional PO : ++1
Compatibility POs : +-+-

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Pair Grade Equations

Ideal PO :
2P - M = s.
Strength = _______.

Hidden PO :
( 2P - M ) = s.
a ) If s > 50% : ( 100 - s ) + [( s - 50 ) ÷ 2 ] = w.
b ) If s < 50% : ( 100 - s ) = w.
Weakness = ________.

Exceptional PO :
w = B(0), ( 2P - M ) + 10 = s.

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Compatibility POs :
100 - [ (Y - H) × 2 ÷ 2 ] = C

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SAMPLE SHEET :
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Instructions for the Pair Grade

If you ever get lost with the directions, please use the SAMPLE SHEET above as a guide. As well, some examples are shown after instructional paragraphs.
To start the Pair Grade equation, use:

2P - M = s

Pluses are any strength, ideal, talent, or trait you truly seek or like about a person, either actual, potential, or archetype. Good or bad, it's suited to you. P = Pluses.
Minuses are any weakness or dislikes that you truly find unattractive about a person, either actual, potential, or of an epitome. These qualities usually have the ability to destroy a relationship. M = Minuses.

#1
For the first stage of the equation, please choose what kind of relationship are you looking for:
Friendship, girlfriend/ boyfriend , sports companion, business partner. Please write it down.
From your choice of relationship type, next choose the qualities or traits you seek as ideal in that kind of relationship.
Pick any 5 pluses and 5 minuses, that suit your match, and list them as entries. Most of the qualities ( 3 of 5 ) should be inner qualities you seek. 2 or less of 5 traits can be about physical appearance. Please try to avoid at copying any of the plus side entries over to the minus side entries. It's good practice to avoid using a same entry or copy, that has been paraphrased.
i.e., Plus : Has big biceps; Minus : Does not have good arm muscles.
When you're done, you will have a total of 10 entries. This is your new template of the Pair Grade. You will use these same entries each time for this kind of partner.

#2
For the second stage of the equation, pick a person you want to test as your ideal partner.
Is he or she your genuine match?
For this targeted person, score the person in each plus or minus of your 10 entries of chosen traits, on a scale of 1 to 10. Include half numbers of 0.5, like 7.5.

Count each positive merit or negative discredit on the 1 to 10 scale.
1 to 10 is a score in points.
1 is the least point, or the weakest score, or lowest value. 10 is the highest points, or the best score and highest value.

Lastly, after the 5 positive entries, ponder your test subject
and list 1 strength that is unique to that person. We give the label of 'A' and 'Strength', and list the unique strength. Next, do the same for the weakness. We give the label of 'B' and 'Weakness' and list the unique weakness. Score those 2 last attributes. Please see SAMPLE SHEET.
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#3
Afterwards, tally all the numbers in the plus and minus sides:
Plus: 7.5 + 5 + 9 + 6 + 7 + 9.5 = 44
Minus: 4 + 3 + 1.5 + 3 + 2 + 4.5 = 18

By using the Ideal PO equation, insert the scores into the letters of the equation's variables. The result is, enter the Plus and Minus totals as numbers into the equation, then solve for s:

2P - M = s

2 ( 44 ) - ( 18 ) = s

2 x ( 44 ) - ( 18 ) = s

88 - ( 18 ) = s

= 70 = 70% = s

The Pluses make up most of the score, and the Minuses have less effect, because we score or judge people by their strengths. and less so by their weaknesses.

Add the percentage sign '%' to your answer of total points , then use it as you would in high school grades:
100% = +A
90% = A.
80% = B.
70% = C.
60% = D.
50% = F.
0% = F.

Some traits you seek you want to answer with a simple Yes or No. Then : Yes = 10; No = 1.

Vitoolenk scores with a point score of 70, or a grade of 70%:
70 = 70% = C grade.

You look at this Grade (or Pair Grade) as any student who receives his/her report card that scores himself or herself. This scores your chosen subject in how much they match your ideal character.
This means Vitoolenk is passable as your ideal friend. He's not the best, he's not the worse, but he's satisfactory to you as a friend .

Exceed Scale

There are unique or rare persons who exceed beyond our expectations and limits, that we might meet in a lifetime. These exceptional people we score using the Exceed Scale. The standard score is 1 to 10. For exceptional people, you may score above the number 10.
The scores of 10 to 20, is a score on the Exceed Scale:
10 to 15 = astonishing levels.
16 to 20 = astounding levels.
These people are above average, that surpass societal and personally boundaries or the norms. An example is an Olympic athlete, a genius scientist, a supermodel, a famous person, a multi - millionaire, etc. This part of scale you will use only for persons that surpass practical human standards. They are the A++++ grade.
Use that number the same as any score of 1 to 10. For example:

PLUS
1 ) Caring / friendly : 9.5
2 ) Loves to ride bikes : 12.5
3 ) Is an athlete and fit, to play sports: 17
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Self Score (Optional)

The next task is optional, or extra credit.
After you test a subject, you may go the extra mile by scoring yourself in all your chosen traits.
Be honest about yourself. If he's in football, and you're in dance you substitute your dance attribute in for his football attribute.

Afterwards you may use this equation to see how much you match:
100 - [(Y - H) x 2 ÷ 2] = C

Example
Your score is 75% = I. Vitoolenk's score is 70% = H. You multiply and divide by 2 in the equation to make it a positive number:

100 - [ (75 - 70) x 2 ÷ 2 ] = C
100 - [ (5) x 2 ÷ 2 ] = C
100 - [ 5 ] = C
95 = 95% , A+ = C

C = compatibility.
After the test of compatibility, you score average in your ideal grading. Vitoolenk scores in a proximate span to your average score.
You and Vitoolenk score high in compatibility.

The equation says there is an attraction happening.
The attraction might be superficial or profound. Either, you are attracted to him, he is attracted to you, or you are attracted to each other.

It might not be mutual. In spite of the test, a condition for incompatibility is your rapid growth toward your ideal happens, while Vitoolenk's growth might race to a different height in limitless skies. Compatibility today does not mean compatibility tomorrow. Expectedly, supply attention to the people that are in your ideal range, even when you're not yet there. Residents in your ideal direction may grow to higher ideals in that way.

Sincerity Test + The Hidden PO

The Sincerity Test is a way to test sincerity by consistency.
POs with SOs, Plos, and Evos should always be consistent.
If POs with SOs, Plos, and Evos are not consistent in average, it is a clue of deceit.
If a person passes the Sincerity Test, the whole equation is complete.
If the person does not pass the Sincerity Test, deceit is involved, and the Hidden PO equation you add or include in a grade for a subject, to determine the grade or strength of someone's bad side.

Fidelity or Superficiality

Here describes consistency.

A primary makes a secondary.
A PO is primary, and the SOs, Plos, and Evos are secondary.
A positive PO, makes corresponding positive SOs, Plos, and Evos.
A negative PO, makes corresponding negative SOs, Plos, and Evos.
From the beginning PO, that purity of energy (whether all positive, all negative, or a mixture in-between) homogeneously preserves when it transfers throughout all its secondary parts (SOs, Plos, Evos).
Whatever a PO is, the SOs, Plos, Evos are.
SOs, Plos, and Evos can't be disharmonious with the PO.

Contrarily, if ever in a positive overall good bearing of a person, we see there exists clues in the identity of an opposite repeating or significant negativity in his actions (Evos), and still exists today, it means there are two conflicting attributes; it means there are two conflicting sides; meaning there are 2 whole sides that aren't the same, meaning there are 2 whole opposite PO's = a positive and negative PO.
Evos (outward appearance) we judge by should always be consistent with the PO (inner foundation, or overall bearing).

This means practically, a person's character at the foundation should match his/ her character in appearance, reputation, or the person in public.
If the hidden and the public bearings are not synchronous, this incongruity of character means there is an ulterior motive, and the appearance is not true. The appearance is an apparition of lying, deceiving, tricking, manipulation, or dishonesty, even iniquity, etc., from a hidden bad PO at the base.
That's a lesson of consistency.

Sincerity Test

This is how to easily use the Sincerity Test.
Sincerity Test:
Whatever the PO foundation hidden inside is, the Evos seen outside in appearance should also be.
If the inside matches the outside, then the character you see is Sincere.
If you see the PO and Evos are similar in harmonies, whether good or bad, it means this fully homogeneous bearing is Sincere.
Proven as Sincere, s/he passes the Sincerity Test.
If the inside and outside do not match, then the character you see is insincere; A product of deceit. Evos proven as or suspected to be superficial, the character does not pass the Sincerity Test.

For the Pair Grade, if the person you're grading passes the Sincerity Test, the Pair Grade is entirely complete. No added work is needed. Take your score as the final grade.
If the person you grade does not pass the Sincerity Test, only then to you extend the equation, by appending the Hidden PO equation, which is:

Hidden PO :
( 2P - M ) = s.
a ) If s > 50% : ( 100 - s ) + [( s - 50 ) ÷ 2 ] = w.
b ) If s < 50% : ( 100 - s ) = w.

Hidden PO Info

The Sincerity Test reveals a true negative PO that exists.
Any PO requires constant nurture. If bad is a PO, he exercises the bad daily or frequently.
Repeating glimpses of traits are clues of the core, a pure form of it as a Prime Objective. Continual hints tattletale the source.
Generally, folk from the corps of bad POs, may on 1 hand give a reserved bearing who smiles often. On the other hand, he faintly emanates clues like odd behavior, a dangerous personality, or unexpected cursing from disappointment = manners outside the standard of morality or decency.

This is the defining occasion to use the Hidden PO Equation.
You will see in someone a conflicting character, as in the following example.

Case Study :Vitoolenk

Vitoolenk is a sales representative who sells solar panels, with a good bearing. Traces in the salesman's manner reveal some peculiar quirks.

You catch clues of hot ebullient behavior, abnormal pressure to buy, a sales price from another offer you remember was 1/3 his offering price. Infrequent but abrupt indecencies occur, like a casual rude comment about your black skin. You see clues in comments of bias.

The result is, you meet a character, who in the overall bearing or surface is good, but in Evos (eventual actions) there are opposite traits, like apparent immorality, indecency, or an aspiration to be bad..They happen in infrequent but jolting comments.
Nonetheless. any deception shows as a good side and bad side together.

Ideal PO equation is the strength. Hidden PO equation is the weakness.
If you seek a companion of darkness, this is where you would look.

Conjure the Sincerity Test by casual thought. Does he pass or not?
The good overall bearing and his indecent actions are incongruent. Clues of hinting bad in an overall positive attitude means at the foundation of PO's, there is in whole a pure bad PO.
Vitoolenk doesn't pass. Let's measure how strong his dark side is or how often it shows up.
We require to use the Hidden PO equation.
Next is how to use the equation.

Hidden PO :
( 2P - M ) = s.
a ) If s > 50% : ( 100 - s ) + [( s - 50 ) ÷ 2 ] = w.
b ) If s < 50% : ( 100 - s ) = w.

Vitoolenk = 70% = s
s = 70%
s =70% > 50%.
s > 50%

You would use equation 'a', and ignore 'b' :
If s > 50% : ( 100 - s ) + [( s - 50 ) ÷ 2 ] = w.

Substitute 70% for variable 's' of the Hidden PO equation:
( 100 - 70 ) + [( 70 - 50 ) ÷ 2 ] = w.

(30) + [ (20) ÷ 2 ] = w

30 + [ 10 ] = w

40 = w.

Summary

Here's an example:
Votoolenk
+1 = 70% , Strength : Tennis player.
-1 = 40% , Weakness : Bias

For Vitoolenk, as an ideal friend he gets a Pair Grade of 70%. Vitoolenk is a C grade as a friend, and is most compatible as a tennis partner.
Adversely, joined to him is his bias that has a grade of 40%. If you seek darkness, it might be productive. If not, it's a weakness, and perhaps unproductive.
Meaning, sometimes you may experience his negative bias.

0% = No Strength.
50% = Unproductive.
100% = Possibly Dangerous.

Hidden PO Exception

The Sincerity Test uses consistency to emerge and float a recognizable insincerity.
In the EXTREME cases to preserve life, is the EXCEPTION when good and bad sincerely exist together. This PO is an exceptional circumstance when the Sincerity Test does not work.

For example when GOOD men enter a bad war, and use BAD practices, the Sincerity Test says the Good is not true. However, because it is the EXCEPTION of safeguarding life, the Good is true.

Good Wars were about countries protecting the lives of citizens.
On one side a collective men who's structure by aspiration of moral excellence is harmonized to stay in a preserved peace;
Contrarily, on the opposite side a collective men on the offense who in aggressive moves seek world heights but who judge good achievement by the use of infinite destruction on valuable lives and the ideal of people , with the result of countless victims.

We deal with these aggressors the way we deal with all serial killers - who take life blindly without guilt.
The ultimate policy of good men in every nation is to protect life.
Good men will exterminate any group, person, or leader who is a source of unlimited deaths to preserve infinite lives.

This EXTREME situation to Preserve Life is the Exceptional case to use the Exceptional PO equation:

w = B(0), ( 2P - M ) + 10 = s.

Actual Case Study : Donny

A few years back when Muslim terrorists were shooting people in my past home city, somehow I caught these extremists attention when I resided in a neighboring state.

It was perhaps my activities online, which included a post of a drawing. It was a drawn crescent moon, which probably looked like the symbol of Islam.

I'm a GOOD CITIZEN, who began to adopt practices and modes of secrecy online, as a way of online protection.
To online police, I'd probably look like a deceptive person of BAD conduct.
To protect my life from extremists by pseudonyms or aliases, I used them to avoid any real information that can positively identify me.
Like a superhero, i.e. the dark knight Batman or Spiderman - a man who hides his identity for proper or safety reasons - every fact about you needs to be obscure. Though I'm not the fantastic Batman or Spiderman, nonetheless to protect yourself is to protect your identity.
We can never be too careful when danger exists. For online acquaintances, who know me directly it takes them only a few months for any person to acquire all necessary info about me. No real harm present.
This is how a good citizen can use bad actions.

If my dishonest qualities were significantly counted in the Pair Grade on the 5 Minuses + 1 Weakness side, for me you would use the Exceptional Scale.

Case Study : Vitoolenk

In Christian text, even the good are mistaken as evil.
When the bad is from an outside source instead of an inner bearing (like my instance in net security) this is when to use the Exceptional PO.

For Vitoolenk, here's an example of exceptional events.
Vitoolenks lived in the Middle East. He and his people were taken hostage for 3 months. Miraculously, only a few months ago, he and few others were released and set free from captivity. When Vitoolenk arrived homed, he found his wife and children suffered from starvation . Vitoolenk took an opportunity to travel abroad to America to seek quick cash for his family. He's agitated from his extreme discomfort of starting a home in new land. He found a job as a solar panel salesman. In haste to send money home, Vit is often frustrated, and angry when any customer sale is quite slow.
For this case, after the Ideal PO and Hidden PO equations, you will attach the Exceptional PO equation.

The strength is the Ideal PO, the weakness is the Hidden PO, the special case is the Exceptional PO.
Here is the equation for the Exceptional PO :

++1 : B(0), ( 2P - M ) + 10 = s.

B(0) means from the Ideal PO equation you'll replace Weakness 'B' which is 4.5, with the point score of 0. Thus:
4 + 3 + 1.5 + 3 + 2 + (0) = 13.5

From that equation, that leaves:
( 2P - M ) + 10 = s.

You substitute 13.5:
( 2 x 44 - 13.5 ) + 10 = s
( 88 - 13.5 ) + 10 = s
( 74.5 ) + 10 = s
84.5 = 84.5% = s

Here is the final statement:

Vitoolenk
Ideal PO = 70%, C
Hidden PO = X
Exceptional PO = 84.5%, B+
compatibility = 95%, A+

Starry ladies and splendid men, the Pair Grade equations are easy numbers that save ample time. It adds assurance via a second opinion as a tool to identify optimal right relationships.
This completes the Pair Grade instruction.

P.S If you like the Pair Grade. Later, the Pair Grade study notes will be released as Page 4. Thank you for testing the Pair Grade.

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Posted: May 21, 2026, 1:30am pdt